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10 Body Language Blunders
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1. A Closed Body
Whether sitting or standing, your body should be loose and open. Do not cross your arms. Do not cross your legs. While you may think it conveys a sense of ease, studies have shown that a people read a closed body differently: they subconsciously think you have something to hide.
What’s more, you’re missing a golden opportunity to send a positive signal. In keeping your body open and your arms spread a little more widely than your torso, you offer your counterpart a “mock hug”. You don’t want to actually hug them (that could be mistake #11!), but this visual cue of a hug antecedent sends the right signal.
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metot
about 1 month ago
222 comments
gREAT ARticle:)
HiringExpert
2 months ago
258 comments
Body Language goes both ways. We not only have to watch ours, but we should be paying attention to theirs too. Be a WHOLE body listener. In other words, not only listen with your ears, but with your eyes! Read your prospects body language. They will let you know if you are on the right path, or if an objection is coming, or if you need to shift gears... or if you are even boring them . And always pay attention to your attitude! It should ALWAYS be outstanding on a sales call! And, it is written on your face! Talk about body language! Selling is all about attitude. Make yours is GREAT! Be as comfortable as you can; be confidant, feel confidant and ACT confidant. If you are new to outside sales, PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE and your confidence and presentation skills, will improve.
Getbackmack
2 months ago
18 comments
Try focusing on the intervierer. Look them in the eyes Don't let your mind wander about what you will say next, don't be afraid. it's not the end of the world. Have fun!
Teri_Roarke
2 months ago
10 comments
I think that not pumping is for a closer acquaintance. Someone you know well or when you want to give the impression of familiarity, you essentially hold their hand for a second. For someone you're totally not close to, though, I think you have to pump. But that's just my opinion...I'm no expert. But JDRedmon, I would LOVE to read what you're talking about, can you post a link??
JDRedmon
2 months ago
2 comments
i read the personality traits of an individual determines if they pump or not. do you share this opinion? if so who does or does not pump?
rich34232
2 months ago
888 comments
accurate. I would suggest the hand shaking to be done differently. Start a small wave going from left to right pausing at handshake height if no motion from the other person to go for it continue bringing your hand down.
juccue
2 months ago
4 comments
Great article. We can all benefit from this.