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7 Ways to Cut Loose from Old Sales Thinking
Ari Galper
Sooner or later, we all backslide into old ways of thinking about selling that lead us down the wrong path with potential clients.
A few weeks ago, I had a phone conversation with Julie, who has been struggling with the old-style selling methods that her manager insists are the only way to sell their company’s technology solution.
Regardless of what product or service you’re selling, you should be able to relate to her dilemma.
Outdated sales skills fail to address the core issue of how we think about selling and unless we get to that core and change it once and for all, we’ll go on struggling with the same counterproductive sales behaviors.
And we’ll continue believing that we’re always just one new sales technique away from the breakthrough we’re looking for.
New Thinking = New Results
Maybe it’s time to take a different approach. Maybe we need to analyze our thinking and identify why we’re not making more sales.
Take a look at the table below and think about your current selling mindset.
How would your selling behaviors change if you changed your sales thinking?
Old Sales Mindset & New Sales Mindset
- Always start out with a strong sales pitch.
- Stop the sales pitch. Start a conversation.
- Your goal is always to close the sale.
- Your goal is always to discover whether you and your prospect are a good fit.
- When you lose a sale, it’s usually at the end of the sales process.
- When you lose a sale, it’s usually at the beginning of the sales process.
- Rejection is a normal part of selling, so get used to it.
- Hidden sales pressure causes rejection. Eliminate sales pressure, and you’ll never experience rejection.
- Keep chasing prospects until you get a yes or no.
- Never chase prospects. Instead, get to the truth of whether there’s a fit or not.
- When prospects offer objections, challenge and/or counter them.
- When prospects offer objections, validate them and reopen the conversation.
- If prospects challenge the value of your product or service, defend yourself and explain its value.
- Never defend yourself or what you have to offer. This only creates more sales pressure.
Let’s take a closer look at these concepts so you can begin to open up your current sales thinking and become more effective in your selling efforts.
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khaledz1
about 1 month ago
2 comments
Good article Thank you...
FJEllias
about 1 month ago
10 comments
Excellent article well worth the time to read and reread!
inspiraysean
2 months ago
70 comments
Brilliant thanks Ari!
rahlgrim
2 months ago
2 comments
Thanks for the article. In the 10+ years I have been involved in sales, I always believed you should treat people with respect and have had some of my biggest clients pay that compliment to me. Sales pressure puts them on the defensive.
sjmahersr
2 months ago
6 comments
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byradam
10 months ago
2 comments
Thanks, good info.
Grew up as preachers kid and believe in the info.
Sell4U
10 months ago
20 comments
Item 4 was a big hurdle for us. It required a restructuring of how we motivated our people. A complete turn around on how we measured ourselves. A total rethinking about reward. And we turned it into a really fun game. Now we have two types of employees; fast moving guppies with really sharp teeth and piranhas. We all work for each other. And I finally found an SFA built for sales people, no more reporting or predicting. The software does it for you.
rich34232
10 months ago
888 comments
this sounds like solution selling concepts concentrate on the solution and pain for results.I do not agree with not answering objections.
JohnKapcia
10 months ago
150 comments
Reread good stuff here.
LarryGrimes
10 months ago
94 comments
This is really good stuff.
JohnKapcia
11 months ago
150 comments
Good one I will reread this many times.
jnacol
about 1 year ago
2 comments
Very good! I will give this a lot of thought. Be a friend and consultant. Thanks!
golocal247
about 1 year ago
4 comments
Focusing on the prospect's needs makes you much more successful. What is in it for THEM,
tbsimon
about 1 year ago
2 comments
I have been in and through the old sales world and don't like it and now do everything you are talking about in the new way I've been dong for a while.Here's the deal I literaly can get in any door that many can't,build confidance and trust but somehow I make friends as I'm fun,nice looking,stylish kinda metro guy (real man)that does Ballroom and latin dancing, ex-marine, athletic and never a lack of good conversation
But ... not GOOD IN CLOSING THE SALE. I'm now looking at doing consulting I still feel I haven't found a position that best utilizes my true talents I know it's out there?
salesanimal3000
about 1 year ago
52 comments
This is a very helpful article.