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What's the best way to break up with someone?

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Posted about 1 year ago

 

So I am thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend but it needs to be a clean and smooth one. We have all mutual friends and I don't want him to hate me. How should I do it?

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Rate This | Posted about 1 year ago

 

How long have you guys been dating?

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Rate This | Posted about 1 year ago

 

Never an easy way especially when one is in love and the other isn't. Best of luck.

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Rate This | Posted about 1 year ago

 

I would say Pray about it.  Pray for the other person to understand why you are breaking up with them, then go talk to them and be honest about your feelings.  If you do it with an attitude of care and respect  then you will have nothing to feel bad about, there will be no reason for him to hate you.  If he hates you it will be HIS choice.  You need to take care of yourself as well as try to be gentle with him. 

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Rate This | Posted about 1 year ago

 

There is no good way to break up with someone, especially if you've been together for a few years. Unless your man is an aquarious thats really not an option. You simply have to do what you must and just make sure you keep those mutual friends apart of your life...it may cause tension for all involved at first but if these people are worth being in your life then theyll stick around for whatever happens after the beak-up. Be carefulk though, treat them like children-you put them in the middle and make them choose resentments will arise and you both will lose your people.

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Rate This | Posted about 1 year ago

 

I think if it's only been a few months then just find some stupid reason. I had to do that one time and the guy had his mom call me and tell me he was going to ask me to marry him. Seriously a week later I met my husband and we've been together for almost 10 years now. So if you're not feeling it why settle.....it's your life.

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Rate This | Posted about 1 year ago

 

Change the locks ,get rid of the toothbrush,Change the name on the mailbox.

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Rate This | Posted 9 months ago

 

 Internet.

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Rate This | Posted 9 months ago

 

 My Space.

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Rate This | Posted 9 months ago

 

Shoot him then you won't have to worry about his feelings, they shoot horses don't they

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Rate This | Posted 9 months ago

 

 Do someone else and make sure he finds out.

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Rate This | Posted 9 months ago

 

just tell him you have herpes, and he gave it to you.

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Rate This | Posted 8 months ago

 

I suggest saying, "I love you, I want to marry you, I want to have your children."


Or you can ask “Do you mind if we drive by my ex's place?  I just want to see if anyone is there.”

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Rate This | Posted 8 months ago

 

Better yet, tell him your pregnant by somebody else and you only messed around twice.

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Rate This | Posted 8 months ago

 

The best way to break  up with someone is to never get involved in the first place

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Rate This | Posted 8 months ago

 

 Good last answer.


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