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Posted 4 months ago The distance is killing me :( We are only 3.5 hours apart and see each other when we can, but it is just not the same. They say distance makes the heart grow fonder and it deff. has, but it hurts a lot too. We have hit the half way mark and the distance will come to an end in a month and a half!! I don't want to have to do this distance thing again......any stories for me on making it work? |
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| Posted 4 months ago yes indeed.
My friend, you are having nothing more tha what might be called a psychological "episode". think of it like a brain fart... for some natural , biological reason, your "love" chemiclas in your brain are producing are causing your happy little endorphins to be working overtime and you can't see the forest for the trees. you are high on the love drug. DOn't worry, look at "this" time as one worth remembering as before long you will be needing a reason for enduring all the things your brain, in it's current state of overload, cannot possibly fathom. "reality" :)
I hope this helps:) |
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| Posted 4 months ago thank you so much....the only bad part is I find my good days and bad days. Sometimes I feel like I can't do it, which is ridiculous. It has been an emotional roller coaster and more often than not an episode put on by me :) thank you so much for your input!!! |
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| Posted 4 months ago Don't pack it in. It will all work out in the end. This is your tes to see what makes you tick. If you love this person, really love them then the distance shouldn't matter. I went through three years of distance before we married and I celebrate 28 years this year. Seeing each other once a day is not so great neither as it has its downfalls too. If you can get through this, you can tackle anything later. So, be patient and be proud of yourself for having the courage to ask such a personal question. |
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| Posted 4 months ago Thank you!!! your response was very helpful!!!! |
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| Posted 4 months ago We had a period of 6 + years seeing each other only on weekends being 2 1/2 hours apart. If the love and relationship is there, it will work. |
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| Posted 4 months ago Anonymous says ...
sorry about that, I meant to say a "psychotic episode". |